Escapades of a typical ‘area father!’
By Bunmi Sofola As soon as Terry walked into his lavishly furnished home at his usual time of 8p.m. or thereabout, his wife was waiting for him. His best food was kept hot in the food warmer, his favourite bottle of wine nesting in the fridge. This was late last year when Covid-19 was virtually unheard […]
Dear Bunmi, he lied he no longer loved his wife
I’m 45 and a divorced mother of two teenage children. Three years ago, I met this man at a wedding and he told me straightaway he was a married man. Despite this, we carried on seeing each other, as I felt safe with him, knowing the relationship wouldn’t go anywhere. He confided in me about […]
Dear Bunmi, did my husband father her child?
YEARS back, my husband had an affair with one of our daughter’s friends. The girl, who was married at the time, became pregnant and had a little girl who is now an adult. Over the years, this girl divorced her first husband, remarried, then divorced again. Now she lives with a new man who doesn’t […]
Dear Bunmi, pregnant at 14!
I’ve just discovered that my eldest daughter, who is 14, is pregnant. I’ve always brought her up to know the importance of safe sex, in spite of whatever sex education she must have been taught in school. As to be expected, I am devastated. I didn’t even realise she and her boyfriend, 16, were having […]
Dear Bunmi, his brother’s girl gets on my nerves
I GET on well with my boyfriend’s brother, but I hate his girlfriend. Everything about her annoys me. She talks non-stop about herself and has him wrapped around her finger. I have reason to believe she’s even cheated on him a few times. Read Also: Dear Bunmi, he’s never had sex! We are all going […]
Dear Bunmi, he complained I no longer turned him on
AFTER I had my daughter, my vaginal opening was quite large and a year later, it’s still the same. When my baby’s father and I parted company soon after the birth, he told me it wasn’t as nice to have intercourse with me any more; that the grip was no longer there when he was inside […]
Dear Bunmi, hubby has turned into a fat slob
I got married over 12 years ago to a man who was on the plum side. I didn’t mind this too much as I wasn’t slim either. Unfortunately, he’s piled on a lot of weight since we got married and I hate the way he looks. I’m not nasty to him about his weight because this […]
Why some men find bossy women a turn-on!
GENERALLY speaking, these days a taste for bossy women is something of taboo. Men can openly desire a woman of any size or sexual persuasion, however, weird or wonderful, but not few would admit that they have a thing about bossy women because they fear being labelled a wimp! “Why would any sane man be […]
Why You Need To Give Up Booze When You’re Pregnant
By Bunmi Sofola Imagine when your pregnancy is scanned for the first time so you could see your precious baby growing in the womb, suddenly its whole body gives a shudder and the foetus appears to jump. Such a movement is known as the startle reflex; and the scan described above are from photographs from […]
Dear Bunmi, he can’t handle his booze
I think my boyfriend has a drink problem but he insists he doesn’t. I love him so much and we seem made for each other – until he gets drunk. I am 26 and he’s 28. We’ve been together for a year and I stay at his flat most weekends. Read Also: Dear Bunmi, he’s never had […]
Dear Bunmi, should I take this ‘break’ from my loveless marriage?
After 26 years of marriage, I have fallen in love for the first time. I want to be with my lover all the time but that seems like an impossible dream. My husband and I are both 52. For the past few years he’s had problems performing in bed. Sex became a chore, so we gave up. […]
3 ways to best handle office romance
By Ada Osadebe Love, they say, can find one anywhere. So, it is not out of place for employees to get involved in romantic relationships with their colleagues in an office environment. Office romance can lead to a situationship and in some cases, lead to long-term relationships and even marriage, but they can also result […]
Dear Bunmi, hubby turned into a violent bully
WHEN I first met my husband, I loved his strong character – he seemed so confident and assertive. But over the nine years we’ve been married, he’s turned into an awful bully. I have to do everything the way he wants them done or he makes my life hell. Read Also: Dear Bunmi, my aunty’s husband […]
Dear Bunmi, is my husband loosing his libido?
I am 52 and my husband is five years older. Our sex life used to be average, but lately, he finds it difficult to sustain an erection – sometimes he can’t even get one in the first place. Read Also: Dear Bunmi, he boasted, but can he deliver? As it is now, we have not […]
Dear Bunmi, he’s never had sex!
Early in the year, a new man joined the firm I worked with and we fell in love. He has a position slightly senior to mine and is a very witty and affectionate man. We kissed but he never seemed to be more amorous. I eventually asked him why and he sheepishly confessed he’s never had […]
Dear Bunmi, my aunty’s husband is too demanding
I am currently studying to be a trained teacher at a college of education. My parents are not very well off, so my aunty agreed for me to stay with her as her house is very close to the college. Not long after I moved in with her, her husband started toasting me. Read Also: #wahalabelikebicycle: […]
