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What you expect from your marriage is not what you often get!

Sheepishly, she told me it was a long time she saw her mother last as she was now living with her fiance. That would have been perfectly in order if it was what she wanted too. “I would have preferred for us to get married”, she shrugged, “but he doesn’t want to commit himself until I’m pregnant”.

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Where Exactly Are The Wife Materials?!

A suave gentleman with a good job and a nice to-die-for pad, he believed it wouldn’t be an effort to meet a partner when he was good and ready to settle down. He recently hit 40, and a dad to an adorable son whose mother doesn’t want to get married! “I couldn’t really believe it when she told me”, Joseph said, scandalised. “I was too old for her? Too old?

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Toxic effect of pornography on relationships

n my early teens, I vividly remember sneaking into our father’s bedroom from time to time, my heart always in my throat for fear of being caught. I was drawn to a stack of Playboy magazines my dad had surreptitiously hidden amongst flies he always brought from the office,” said Ephraim. He’s now 28, has a fantastic job and a string of girlfriends—but is not thinking of marriage yet. He is now a member of millions of online pornographic junkies. “As I salivated over the ‘full frontal’ centrefold, with those glamorous models spread-eagled across pages with come-to-bed eyes and staples through their midriffs—I rushed to my room and masturbated.

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I still can’t bond with my son

I’m a 25-year-old mother of an 18-month-old son and he’s the sweetest child you could ever hope for. He likes being around other people but screams and throws tantrums when he’s around me. I had a very bad case of post-natal depression when I had him and I’m not completely over it yet. My husband couldn’t bond with our first child, so I pretend to be enamoured by him.

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Wives who are comfortable with their husbands’ other wives!

She described the early years of her marriage as ‘fairytale’. “My husband and I were so completely in love you don’t think it can get any better, but it did,” she said. The reason for her increased happiness may come as a surprise. For while the couple were blessed with children, what really ‘enhanced’ the relationship, according to her, was the arrival of another woman.

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Sex toy: A handy helpmate

Sex toys are still largely shrouded in certain social taboos in many cultures, especially in this part of the world. This however, does not come as a surprise since many people still find it difficult to discuss sex and sexuality issues even privately, not to think of expressing their sexuality, preferences and pleasures in the open. However, this has not stopped the growing market and demand for sex toys from fast gaining ground in Nigeria. This is because more people, especially the young are now more educated, thus enlightened and are more open minded and free to embrace their sexuality.

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