By Bunmi Sofola When Joshua’s marriage crashed after 22 years, she was so wrapped up in the aftermath of her divorce she paid little attention to her first daughter. Benny, then 21, was so hard-hit by the separation, her life took a downward turn. “It was several years later that the details of her debauchery […]

THE average woman, desperate for a relationship by settling for a married man, soon finds out that such men often cling to their wives. The truth really is that men don’t change as far as their emotions go, and they seldom respect woman who goes to bed with them when they have a wife. Let’s […]

By Bunmi Sofola ‘Most times, lying with my hubby and watching him sleep on his back, beer belly rising and falling with each snore, he doesn’t look appetising in the least, especially with his treble chin and bald head.  I am starting to find him repulsive….’ Melisa looked so forlorn as she told me about […]

By Bunmi Sofola ROSALINE was attending her company’s usual monthly briefing when she was called out to answer a call. “I knew straight away that it would be a distress call,” said Rosaline. ‘The secretaries had strict instructions not to pull any of the sales executives out of a meeting to answer any calls except […]

Dear Bunmi says: ‘Be there for your son. Offer him a safe place from temptations. If your husband doesn’t like it, he’ll be the one to go’