Relationships

‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’ — Reader

‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’ — Reader

By Bunmi Sofola A Reader wrote:  I have followed your columns way back from your Punch days when I was in the university.  Most of the times, your articles are so down-to-earth they speak to me – as if you are writing about me.  In one of the editions of Sunday Vanguard a few months back, […]
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A case of using what you have to get what you want?!

A case of using what you have to get what you want?!

By Bunmi Sofola One of the biggest mistakes you can make is put your friend up in your flat ‘on a temporary basis’ especially when your place is a bit crammed.  Bilikis was desperate for a place to stay and Anne, her childhood friend put her up.  But now Ann’s ‘guest’ had been with her […]

Dear Bunmi, his brother still turns me on

Dear Bunmi, his brother still turns me on

I currently live with my boyfriend of six years and we have a lovely three-year-old son. Before I met my boyfriend, I had a crush on his brother and I’m afraid I still find him attractive. Every time I see him, the feelings get stronger. I can’t stop thinking about him, even though I now […]

Dear Bunmi, my mother-in-law is a bitter woman

Dear Bunmi, my mother-in-law is a bitter woman

I thought I had a good relationship with my mother-in-law, but I noticed she started becoming cold towards me when I had my second child, who is a boy. My husband is her only child and doesn’t want to hurt her feeling by talking to her. She’s fallen out with virtually everybody in the family. […]

‘Remi enough for me’ —Tinubu dispels rumours of new wife

‘Remi enough for me’ —Tinubu dispels rumours of new wife

The All Progressives Congress APC Presidential Candidate, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu has dismissed as “fake news”, a social media report that he was set to take a new wife, declaring that he is enjoying his marriage to his only wife, Senator Oluremi.

Pregnancy is not enough reasons for husbands to be unfaithful

Pregnancy is not enough reasons for husbands to be unfaithful

IF someone was caught having an affair, you’d think they’d make a full confession,” observed Caroline, a relationship counsellor.  “You’d think they would know if they wanted to stay or leave.  You’d think they’ll be able to explain why they were unfaithful and that if they promised to ‘fight’ for their marriage that their actions […]

Rich women are more likely to be alcoholics!

Rich women are more likely to be alcoholics!

WELL-OFF women are three times as likely to drink almost every day compared with those on lower incomes, recent research revealed.  Whether it’s liquid lunches with friends or relaxing over a bottle of wine after work, experts warn they are putting their health at risk.  Research shows those living in the richest of households are […]

Why some men drool over fat women!

Why some men drool over fat women!

By Candida If you believe that it’s only svelte women that grab all the good-looking men, leaving the unsavoury ones to fat women, you are wrong!  More than ever before, women with more bounce-to-the-ounce, are being encouraged to flaunt what they have.  All over the world, there have also been beauty pageants specially designed for voluptuous […]

When the only reason you stay with a drunk is the money

When the only reason you stay with a drunk is the money

By Bunmi Sofola Ola, Dupe’s husband, now rich – beyond their wildest dreams, has alcohol as his albatross. She doesn’t always know what type of rabbit he’ll pull out of his full magic hat of embarrassment when he’s drunk. The last I witnessed was early this year when the family had a belated New Year […]