‘He came home with funny smells on his person, and the last straw was when a niece, who came to stay during an exam, complained he forced her to have s3x with him’

Dear Bunmi, best friend is father figure to my kids, but I love him. How do I tell him? Will it spoil our friendship? We’ve known for 20 years

Dear Bunmi has this to say: If she was a real friend, she’d wish you well. So maybe you’re better off without her?

The next day, she was her chatty self again. She said we were better off forgetting what happened the previous night

Dear Bunmi says “Is it because you have two men making love to you, at the same time boost your self-esteem? Believing you’re not a sex-pot may be your problem”

“Remember, you don’t have to be married in the same way as your mom and dad were.Checkmate the marriage you want – in your own style”

“Throughout our marriage, he has always asked me to dress more sexily. He’d love me to wear skimpy, low cut tops to enhance my boobs, and tight fitting trousers. He even buys me eye-popping gears when he travels and gets very upset when I won’t wear them”

But it’s simply not me. I’d look silly dressed like a teenager in heat

“Dear Bunmi, I ran into a friend of hers who confessed a few of them had sought the services of some Aristos, aka Sugar Daddies, to make ends meet. I was shocked, to say the least”

Dear Bunmi, she then moved out before the date I said the second wife was moving in, and my mother moved in with her! It was a betrayal.

Dear Bunmi, at first he didn’t see eye-to-eye with my first daughter, and they argued a lot. In fact, it was so bad that my daughter went back to live with her father.

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Biting off her husband’s “thing” is not right, but my daughter Sa’adatu is just exhibiting the traits of a young girl who hasn’t seen the world. She is not an evil child. She is just foolish!

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My 24-year-old daughter was lucky to be offered a well-paid job in the telecoms firm where she had her youth service. Now she’s got a flat she shares with her friend of many years.  Read Also: Dear Bunmi, is this contraceptives method fullproof? We’ve always been close, as she’s my only child. Her leaving has […]

Because of the type of friends I keep, and our life-style, I’m in terrible debt. I have a thriving business and it’s not that I spend a lot on myself per se. But I’ve run up huge debts trying to keep up with the various aso-ebi I bought for my friends’ numerous social engagements. Read […]