Dear Bunmi, after being divorced for a while, I met up with an old flame I’d left 30 years ago. We rekindled our relationship and eventually married

“An active love life, otherwise known as lust, is great, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve met Mr. Right”

“Dear Bunmi, her appearance now puts me off and I can only get aroused with her by picturing younger girls I’d slept with”

Dear Bunmi, the boy looks nothing like him – he looks like the boy I had a fling with. People have told me not to tell him but I can’t.

Dear Bunmi, I need some tips on how to find a man fast. I don’t want to be the only one out of my group of friends that looks like a loser!

‘He came home with funny smells on his person, and the last straw was when a niece, who came to stay during an exam, complained he forced her to have s3x with him’

Dear Bunmi, best friend is father figure to my kids, but I love him. How do I tell him? Will it spoil our friendship? We’ve known for 20 years

Dear Bunmi has this to say: If she was a real friend, she’d wish you well. So maybe you’re better off without her?

The next day, she was her chatty self again. She said we were better off forgetting what happened the previous night

Dear Bunmi says “Is it because you have two men making love to you, at the same time boost your self-esteem? Believing you’re not a sex-pot may be your problem”