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October 26, 2023

Dear Bunmi, can I try s3x toys?

Dear Bunmi, can I try s3x toys?

Dear Bunmi, I’m in my late 60s and lost my husband two years ago. I haven’t had sex since his death and I miss having orgasms.

I’m now toying with the idea of using a dildo. I have even visited a few s3x shops abroad, just to have a look.

Do you think I’m a bit too old for this sort of thing? I wouldn’t want to do myself any physical damage.
Philo, by e-mail.

Dear Philo,

You’re absolutely not too old for this sort of thing! As for doing yourself any harm – the opposite is the case.

A dildo will massage your vagina, keeping you healthy ‘down there’ plus, having orgasms will help you stay fit.

So, just do it!

As you haven’t had sex for a while, you may need to take things slowly and gently – like any muscle, your vagina can suffer from lack of use.

And, if you feel a bit dry, add in some lubrication – you can use your own saliva, a specially-designed lubricant from a chemist, or any unperfumed body oil.

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