“Females in charge of hiring may well be jealous of prospective female employees who are attractive and compete with them for mates”

“An active love life, otherwise known as lust, is great, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve met Mr. Right”

“Dear Bunmi, her appearance now puts me off and I can only get aroused with her by picturing younger girls I’d slept with”

By Bunmi Sofola Wedding guests were treated to a breathtaking ceremony as Anita said “I do” to her boyfriend of two years.  They both lived in the U.S. and travelled specially to the country so both couple’s relatives can share in their joy.  A few weeks after the wedding, they went back to base, purportedly […]

Matilda, in her early 40s, is the principal of a high-brow private secondary school and her teeth are really on edge because of what she sees as a dangerous increase in ‘sexting’ among teenagers.  According to her, “Curiosity about the sexual organs starts well before children know what their ‘bits’ are actually for, and the […]

Dear Bunmi, the boy looks nothing like him – he looks like the boy I had a fling with. People have told me not to tell him but I can’t.

Dear Bunmi, I need some tips on how to find a man fast. I don’t want to be the only one out of my group of friends that looks like a loser!

“Women are more likely to cheat on their men if they’re not happy at home, but it mean they don’t love their husband”

A group of us were having this heated conversation about how fickle men really were and how ready they always were to have a fling whenever the opportunity presented itself, no matter how serious their current relationship was.  Phil disagreed but was reluctant to discuss details in front of so many listeners.  So I cornered […]

By Bunmi Sofola It was an exclusive 50th birthday party that boasted the best foods on the menu down to exotic canapé and choice wine and champagne.  However, by the time desert was served, Veronica, 36, had changed from the polite, friendly lady who had initially charmed other guests, into an insulting and aggressive loud […]

Have you ever woken up the morning after some mind-blowing sex and think: “Why did I tell him all that stuff while we were cuddling last night?” Apparently, you’re not unique.

“It’s either you’re so delicious to look at that women can’t help themselves, or you send out flirty signals without realising it”

‘He came home with funny smells on his person, and the last straw was when a niece, who came to stay during an exam, complained he forced her to have s3x with him’

Dear Bunmi, best friend is father figure to my kids, but I love him. How do I tell him? Will it spoil our friendship? We’ve known for 20 years

My 16-year-old daughter has a boyfriend she’s been seeing for almos a year. I found out from the boy’s mom that they’ve been having s3x