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Sexless marriages!

Sexless marriages!

Some time ago, I wanted to make love to my wife and realized that I didn’t have an erection, I almost freaked out. Until now I had heard that it happens to men that are in their forties and above, but I never believed it can happen to me, because I had always thought I was “George of the Jungle”

Byron Katie and The Work

Byron Katie and The Work

If I told you I had found a process that could help you reduce, even eliminate, your personal suffering, would you be willing to give it a try? Today I’d like to share the insights of a woman whose life has been amazingly transformed.

Are you still having sex with your spouse

Are you still having sex with your spouse

Men and women don’’t know how to please each other very well at all. There simply has been too much focus on intercourse as a way of reaching mutual pleasure. It takes more than 20 minutes, on average, for a woman to become aroused to the point of orgasm. 75% of men don’’t take 2 minutes, and not enough men and women have worked at mastering The Art of a 25-Minute Arousal.

Perfect “Imperfections”

Perfect “Imperfections”

In the heart of rural China, there lived an old woman who had two large pots. One had a crack in it; the other was perfect. Each day the woman hung each pot on one end of a pole and carried them across her neck as she made the long walk to the stream for water. Each day when she arrived home, the cracked pot would be only half full. The woman noticed but never complained.

Essential treatments

Essential treatments

When should you never ignore your hair’s needs? What are the most beneficial treatments for chemically straightened Black hair? When should they be done? The general rule is to pay attention to the health of hair before and after chemical application.

Making do

Making do

If you cannot get what you want, take what you get! That is a sum-total of what hairdressing entails. Genes determine hair-type, like great legs or sexy eyes; you either have the genes or you don’t. But the important thing is to let what you have work for you and make sure you keep hair out of harm’s way, so you don’t suffer irreversible damage.

Focus for Success!

Focus for Success!

Of late a theme in e-mails from my readers—business people, professionals and students—has been difficulty in concentration. Here are a couple of examples:

The guy on facebook  says I am his wife!

The guy on facebook says I am his wife!

Hi Jerome, I got a message in my inbox from someone who said he saw he saw me on FACEBOOK though my friends list and found we do not share any mutual friends. He said he believes I am his wife and sent a number so I can call him

How do you start all over again?

How do you start all over again?

Some of my clients sit in my counseling office asking “Jerome, how do I start all over again?” I ask them if they are really ready to start all over again, because I know starting all over again may involve starting from scratch, sometimes. And, that’s what a lot of people don’t want to do. They will rather manage with a life of mediocrity, and hope it will still continue to get them some results, no matter how useless the results may be.

Honor and Admire Your Body!

Honor and Admire Your Body!

I just took a brisk walk in my neighborhood. I am fascinated by how cooperative my body always is with me. When I say, “It’s time for a walk,” my body gets up and starts moving! When I decide that I want to sit with some friends and relax, my body is willing to do that too.