#loveweychoke: Am I smothering him with too much affection?
Dear Bunmi, I’ve always had a high sex drive, but it has become worse since I met my current boyfriend a few months ago. He’s so macho that sex with him is always amazing. As a result, I want to be with him all the time. I’ve tried to act cool when he wants a few […]
Why get married when you knew it could flop?!
By Bunmi Sofola It’s the dream of most women to get married to a man whose chemistry works well with hers. She’s dreamt of the magic of her wedding day for years. And now the day is here, would she be stepping into her worst nightmare? “As I walked down the aisle towards the man […]
I don’t want a hush-hush romance
Dear Bunmi, I will be 50 this year. Seven months ago, I fell for a man I’ve known socially for sometime. He says he’s committed to me but doesn’t want to get married again after his first marriage failed. Yet, I can’t live with him without getting married, as my religion doesn’t allow it. We […]
How do I tell him I no longer love him?
Dear Bunmi, My 25th birthday is around the corner and I’m thinking of having a fairly big one. My current boyfriend is getting worked up about it and hinted he had something really special planned for the day. That gets me panicking because I’ve been unhappy with the relationship and plan to dump him. As […]
He swore his undying love
Dear Bunmi, I am 16 and there is this 18-year-old boy who has been sending me letters and text messages informing me how much he loves me. He keeps on trying to convince me that I’m the only one who occupies his heart. When I told him that I don’t want him to be my […]
Excessive hair growth embarrasses me!
Dear Bunmi, For quite a while now I’ve got what looks like a dark moustache on my upper lip and, recently, I’ve started to sprout hairs on the chin and my chest. Not exactly ‘magnet’ when you want to pull a man, you’ll agree. I’ve tried shaving, but it seems to encourage the growth. Are […]
