She knew I didn’t want more children
Dear Bunmi, When I met my current girlfriend, she told me she was on the pill. As the relationship progressed. I told her I already had four children from two different women and wasn’t really interested in having more. I made her understand that I wouldn’t mind if she found another man who wanted children […]
My children and I are scared of him
Dear Bunmi, My husband is a bully and the kids and I are scared of him to the point that I can no longer bear it. He beats the kids often and has threatened to deal with me if I leave. The only thing is that I don’t have anyone to turn to. My mother lives […]
Risky to have a second child with this toyboy
Dear Bunmi, I became a widow some five years ago and my husband left us well-provided for. I have three lovely kids aged between 20 and 14. Early last year, I met my current boyfriend who is 37, though he looks more matured than his age. His divorce from his wife was long and messy. Anyway, […]
Toy-boy who turns into a love-sick monster!
By Bunmi Sofola What unbridled passion could make a woman seduce a lad? Isn’t every gangling boy’s fantasy is luring a matured woman to bed for his first and subsequent sexual experiences? Ironically, there are women out there who find unfettered lads attractive. Nora was one of them – until she got her fingers burnt. […]
Court dissolves 8-year-old marriage over husband’s nagging
A Grade ‘A’ Customary Court in Mapo in Ibadan, on Thursday, dissolved an eight-year-old marriage between a housewife, Mujidat Rafiu, on grounds of constants nagging from her husband, Saheed. Delivering judgment, the President of the court, Mrs S.M. Akintayo pronounced the marriage dissolved, citing lack of peace as the reason. Akintayo granted custody of the […]
#loveweychoke: Am I smothering him with too much affection?
Dear Bunmi, I’ve always had a high sex drive, but it has become worse since I met my current boyfriend a few months ago. He’s so macho that sex with him is always amazing. As a result, I want to be with him all the time. I’ve tried to act cool when he wants a few […]
