Dear Bunmi

Does she long after her ex?

Does she long after her ex?

Dear Bunmi, I recently ran into an old mate of mine. I was with my current girlfriend and they seemed to know each other pretty well. She later told me they were an item but later broke up. I know, as a fact, that my friend is well-endowed. He used to brag about it when […]
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Why women  live longer than men 

Why women  live longer than men 

More widows than widowers Sex hormones, social factors play a role Why the gap will keep widening By Sola Ogundipe Unlike in biblical times when men lived to be hundreds of years old and the women were left far behind in the biogical age race, the tables have been turned today as the men are […]

My children and I are scared of him

My children and I are scared of him

Dear Bunmi, My husband is a bully and the kids and I are scared of him to the point that I can no longer bear it. He beats the kids often and has threatened to deal with me if I leave.  The only thing is that I don’t have anyone to turn to. My mother lives […]

Risky to have a second child with this toyboy

Risky to have a second child with this toyboy

Dear Bunmi, I became a widow some five years ago and my husband left us well-provided for. I have three lovely kids aged between 20 and 14. Early last year, I met my current boyfriend who is 37, though he looks more matured than his age. His divorce from his wife was long and messy. Anyway, […]

Toy-boy who turns into a love-sick monster!

Toy-boy who turns into a love-sick monster!

By Bunmi Sofola What unbridled passion could make a woman seduce a lad?  Isn’t every gangling boy’s fantasy is luring a matured woman to bed for his first and subsequent sexual experiences?  Ironically, there are women out there who find unfettered lads attractive.  Nora was one of them – until she got her fingers burnt.  […]

Court dissolves 8-year-old marriage over husband’s nagging

Court dissolves 8-year-old marriage over husband’s nagging

A Grade ‘A’ Customary Court in Mapo in Ibadan, on Thursday, dissolved an eight-year-old marriage between a housewife, Mujidat Rafiu, on grounds of constants nagging from her husband, Saheed. Delivering judgment, the President of the court, Mrs S.M. Akintayo pronounced the marriage dissolved, citing lack of  peace as the reason. Akintayo granted custody of the […]