The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
Could you be happier in a second marriage?
By Bunmi Sofola When Angela’s first marriage broke, she was only 29 with two young children to take care of. “I was 22 when I got married,” she said, and my husband was five years older. When I had my first child at 23, it was clear we wanted different things from life. He wanted […]
Could you be friends with your husband’s mistress?!
Astonishingly, despite the incontrovertible evidence, he still maintained it was just a fling and scuff at my heart-broken reaction.
Dear Bunmi, can I try s3x toys?
Dear Bunmi, I’m in my late 60s and lost my husband two years ago. I haven’t had s3x since his death and I miss having orgasms.
How common are ‘surrogate’ fathers?
I learnt some men, knowing they are infertile, have encouraged their wives to play the field with the hope of their getting pregnant
Dear Bunmi, I didn’t know he was a kiss-and-tell!
He invited me to his flat and we made passionate love — it made me fall in love with him more.
