Put your wife down at your peril!
By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have. We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left. A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony. Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
Adults suffer emotionally too when their parents’ marriages crash
By Bunmi Sofola When Joshua’s marriage crashed after 22 years, she was so wrapped up in the aftermath of her divorce she paid little attention to her first daughter. Benny, then 21, was so hard-hit by the separation, her life took a downward turn. “It was several years later that the details of her debauchery […]
Did you believe his promise to leave his wife for you?
THE average woman, desperate for a relationship by settling for a married man, soon finds out that such men often cling to their wives. The truth really is that men don’t change as far as their emotions go, and they seldom respect woman who goes to bed with them when they have a wife. Let’s […]
This bit-on-the-side isn’t going away quietly!
By Bunmi Sofola ‘Most times, lying with my hubby and watching him sleep on his back, beer belly rising and falling with each snore, he doesn’t look appetising in the least, especially with his treble chin and bald head. I am starting to find him repulsive….’ Melisa looked so forlorn as she told me about […]
How do you handle a scared, pregnant 15-year-old?
By Bunmi Sofola ROSALINE was attending her company’s usual monthly briefing when she was called out to answer a call. “I knew straight away that it would be a distress call,” said Rosaline. ‘The secretaries had strict instructions not to pull any of the sales executives out of a meeting to answer any calls except […]
Dear Bunmi, should I choose my son over my hubby?
Dear Bunmi says: ‘Be there for your son. Offer him a safe place from temptations. If your husband doesn’t like it, he’ll be the one to go’
Dear Bunmi, we were both virgins
Dear Bunmi says: ‘If you feel you’re about to climax, withdraw, change position or think about something else’
Baby-hungry single women are the reason some men are having the snip!
By Bunmi Sofola A few months into a fledging relationship, divorcee Donald was in bed with attractive, much younger partner when she whispered a proposal that punctured the mood. It wasn’t so much as actual demand as a loaded question that had Donald reconsidering the future – not only with her, but about his life […]
Dear Bunmi, wife becomes born again after 15 years of marriage
“If she’s so devout that things you used to enjoy together are now off the menu, you need to get counselling. If not properly handled, this could put your marriage in jeopardy”
Dear Bunmi, my step-daughter’s hostile
“It’s time to put an end to the pretence. He needs to spell out that anyone who disrespects his wife is disrespecting him”
Dear Bunmi, I need to find a girlfriend
Dear Bunmi, I’m 28 and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I haven’t even kissed a woman and now I feel that I never will.
