Put your wife down at your peril!
By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have. We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left. A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony. Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
Does your man have the ‘love rat’ gene?!
How do you spot a love rat? The current man in your life has virtually swept you off your feet. He texts you all day, takes you to your favourite eatery from time to time, boys you little gifts and calls you at night because he can’t stop thinking of you! The first time Sandra’s […]
Juggling lovers with the perfection of a magician!‘
By Bunmi Sofola A few months ago I spent a few days with a very dear friend who lives in a block of luxury flat, and noticed ante occupant of the next flat to hers was new. In the past, the flat had been occupied by some noisy neighbours. It was a relief to have […]
Why sex with your ex could be therapeutic!
By Bunmi Sofola There’s no explaining the function of the heart (head?) when it comes to sex. One minute, you’re seemingly happily married, the next you want nothing to do with your ex and head straight for the divorce court. At the end of it all, you feel relieved. Once in a while, you might […]
A thug in designer clothes is still a thug!
By Bunmi Sofola ANY festive period is ideal for coming up with a party you hope with serve as snare for trapping money bags. Having a party to get a sizeable contract or two from friends of your lover seems a bit calculating, but tell them cheerily that you are having a Christmas or New […]
Is it wise to attend your ex-husband’s wedding?
By Bunmi Sofola WOULD you attend your ex-husband’s wedding to his new bride even if he’s behaved like a rat? When Angela’s marriage broke down irretrievably some five years ago, she was very bitter that she’d been left to raise their three children as a single parent. “Until that point,” she recalled, “Uzor was my whole […]
Taming a gold-digging sister-in-law!
By Bunmi Sofola THE amount the average woman spends to look glamorous these days could make the average husband bankrupt for the rest of his life! Hakeem, a spare parts dealer and in his 40s is a self-made man. He’d first served as an apprentice under the uncle who brought him up before he was […]
How to pass the infatuation stage
By Bunmi Sofola You’ve been seeing your man for, say, six months and the lust-ridden sex marathon you first embarked on has now slowed down to once or twice a week. So what are you going to do now? Stay at this stage forever? Or plan on having more a night of mindblowing sex which […]
This New Year I intend to eat what I like!
By Bunmi Sofola One of the things that frighten a lot of us is dying before our time. To achieve our dream of longevity, experts advice we lead a relatively healthy lifestyle, exercise daily, drink in moderation, eat plenty of fruit and vegetables, and most importantly of all-shim fatty foods including butter and dairy products to […]
Is it selfish to walk out on so much wealth to be with another man?
By Bunmi Sofola DENIKE’s life was a blessed life. She lived in an imposing five-bedroom home – a house surrounded by a beautiful garden where she and her three children relaxed most afternoons. Her husband earned a lot of money running a lucrative haulage business and Denike had to leave her air-hostess job to go into […]
A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help!
By Bunmi Sofola You wake up every morning wondering what ‘crimes’ you’ll commit today, and how your husband will punish you”, Tina, a victim of a violent husband laments. “A punch in the face for asking him for money for the children’s school fees? A slap in the face for saying hello to an old […]
