What’s a man’s pride got to do with it when he smells the money?!
By Bunmi Sofola SYLVIA admitted that her parent’s marriage and the stoic way her mummy yielded her position as the first wife to a much younger and ambitious woman prepared her for the way she handled her relationship with men. Her story: ‘When a man suddenly discovered he’s scaled the ladder of success faster than he’d […]
Juggling lovers with the perfection of a magician!‘
By Bunmi Sofola A few months ago I spent a few days with a very dear friend who lives in a block of luxury flat, and noticed ante occupant of the next flat to hers was new. In the past, the flat had been occupied by some noisy neighbours. It was a relief to have […]
Why sex with your ex could be therapeutic!
By Bunmi Sofola There’s no explaining the function of the heart (head?) when it comes to sex. One minute, you’re seemingly happily married, the next you want nothing to do with your ex and head straight for the divorce court. At the end of it all, you feel relieved. Once in a while, you might […]
A thug in designer clothes is still a thug!
By Bunmi Sofola ANY festive period is ideal for coming up with a party you hope with serve as snare for trapping money bags. Having a party to get a sizeable contract or two from friends of your lover seems a bit calculating, but tell them cheerily that you are having a Christmas or New […]
Is it wise to attend your ex-husband’s wedding?
By Bunmi Sofola WOULD you attend your ex-husband’s wedding to his new bride even if he’s behaved like a rat? When Angela’s marriage broke down irretrievably some five years ago, she was very bitter that she’d been left to raise their three children as a single parent. “Until that point,” she recalled, “Uzor was my whole […]
Taming a gold-digging sister-in-law!
By Bunmi Sofola THE amount the average woman spends to look glamorous these days could make the average husband bankrupt for the rest of his life! Hakeem, a spare parts dealer and in his 40s is a self-made man. He’d first served as an apprentice under the uncle who brought him up before he was […]
