Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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All I want now is just sex

All I want now is just sex

I’m 32 and in-between girl-friends. My first girlfriend was so troublesome, it was a relief when she finally left even though we have a son. She’s put me off a permanent relationship for now and I’m thinking of going to a prostitute whenever I need a quick fix. Like the saying goes: bodi no be wood!

My girl’s gone off sex!

My girl’s gone off sex!

I’m the general manager of a fairly big supermarket and I’m currently tempted to stray with some of my sales reps as sex with my girl is virtually non-existent. We’ve been together for about three years and at the beginning, we couldn’t get enough of each other.

My daughter needs to be brought down to earth!

My daughter needs to be brought down to earth!

My 30-year-old daughter has taken herself into the world of the high and mighty to such an extent that I hardly knew her any more. She’s married to a very successful  car merchant and lives in a very big house on the Island in Lagos. She has high- achieving friends and is talking like them. This was the same person who gave mehell when she was growing up.

Being drunk is no excuse to pounce on her! – Bunmi Sofola

Being drunk is no excuse to pounce on her! – Bunmi Sofola

A CULTURE of heavy drinking has led to sexual molestation becoming the norm on a night out for young women—and they feel they have to put,with it, an academic report warns. In a disturbing insight into how 18 to 24-year-olds behave on a night out, a survey has found one in three girls received inappropriate or unwanted physical attention or groping, but few were surprised. Academics said that excessive consumption of alcohol has turned a lot of clubs into a ‘permissive social arena’.