Relationships

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away?  Two readers sent in their views recently.  One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife.  “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
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I need to break off with this old lover

I need to break off with this old lover

I met my boyfriend when I was 15 and we’ve been together for five years. The problem is, we’re always arguing but I know we love each other. Unfortunately, I’ve started sleeping with a married friend of my uncle.

Why is he always texting in the toilet?

Why is he always texting in the toilet?

I CURRENTLY live with my boyfriend of 10 months and I never thought he would cheat on me – I know we love each other deeply. But he recently came back from a three- week course where he said he got friendly with a female delegate from another company.

I prefer him as a lover

I prefer him as a lover

I have this male colleague at work and we are very friendly. We see and chat  with each other every day. We’re both single and so far, the relationship has been

purely platonic – except for once or twice that we have kissed when slightly tipsy

He doesn’t care for us

He doesn’t care for us

I am a single mother with a partner that is highly unreliable. In spite of having a young daughter, we don’t see him for days on end. He doesn’t phone to see if we are alright though a lot of his friends see and hear from him regularly.