Dear Bunmi, I’m in love with a married mother of two, though I’ve never really got married. I’ve had a live-in relationship that produced a son I admire. Don’t tell me to stop seeing this woman! I love her too much. We meet regularly and, no, we don’t rip each other’s clothes off. Very often we just sit, […]

I’ve been married for 16 years, and we have three children. I recently learnt from a family member that my husband had a secret family who lived close to her friend’s house – and that the woman had two children for my him. I didn’t really believe her because she’s naturally a vicious gossip. When […]

I am a nice, intelligent, attractive guy with a well paid job. I’m in my late 20s and would love to get married but my girlfriends have all dumped me, after accusing me of having a roving eye. I don’t know where they got the idea from, as I’ve tried to be faithful with women […]

I had a mastectomy early last year. Naturally, I was anxious about my altered appearance, but my husband reassured me that it wouldn’t matter to him. But despite his promises, he’s not touched me since the operation and can hardly bring himself to look at my scars. I’m due to have a reconstruction shortly, but […]

I’m a 28-year-old single mother of an adorable son. I’m currently involved with a man who is very nice to me and my son, and I love him. The problem is that my ex has come back into my life. He was my first true love and we were together for over four years. We […]