Relationships

Why men ought to be more concerned about their health!

Why men ought to be more concerned about their health!

By Bunmi Sofola Looks as if Nigerian men are paying the price for neglecting their health, with more men dying prematurely every year.  But common male health problems can be detected and treated earlier (if not prevented) with better awareness and regular check-ups.  Listed are some of the health issues highlighted by experts and how […]
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Dear Bunmi, he closes his eyes during s3x!

Dear Bunmi, he closes his eyes during s3x!

I’m very close to my boyfriend of nine months and enjoy the intimacy that exists between us. The thing is that whenever we have sex, he closes his eyes and stays silent. He says he enjoys cuddling more than sex, yet he also says he wants more excitement. Read Also: My husband’s friend is destroying […]

Dear Bunmi, my ex allows the kids to run wild

Dear Bunmi, my ex allows the kids to run wild

I’m a divorced mother of three. Their dad and I split up six years ago and he sees them every other weekend. When they’re with me, they have firm rules about bedtimes and behaviours. It’s a different story with their dad. He lets them stay up late at night watching unsuitable TV programmes and films. […]

Dear Bunmi, she said I wasn’t the father

Dear Bunmi, she said I wasn’t the father

Why are women so fickle? Why am I so unlucky with them? After several disappointments, I finally got married to a woman I thought loved me. That was five years ago. We have two boys, but now a man who was my rival, when I was dating her, has boasted that he fathered our first […]

Dear Bunmi, my friend’s hubby is hot!

Dear Bunmi, my friend’s hubby is hot!

I think I’ve fallen for a friend’s husband, which I know is really bad. I’ve been with my husband for 10 years and things came to a head two months ago, when we went to a party they were hosting. He is a friendly guy and enjoys the company of women, and I think his attentive […]

Dear Bunmi, she used and dumped me unceremoniously!

Dear Bunmi, she used and dumped me unceremoniously!

I met a fantastic woman last year when I went on a foreign course from my place of work. We spent more than six weeks together and had brilliant, passionate sex. It was a mind-blowing experience and I really fell hard for her. We exchanged phone numbers and agreed to get in touch on our […]