Can a career woman really do without a man’s love?
By Bunmi Sofola HAVE you readers noticed the new and growing breed of ‘forever singles’? It consists of a band of empowered, independent women who don’t want to be defined by a relationship. Not for them nights slumped on the sofa trying to pacify a screaming kid whilst their man snores in front of Super […]
Escapades of a typical ‘Area Father!’
By Bunmi Sofola As soon as Terry walked into his lavishly furnished home at his usual time of 8p.m. or thereabout, his wife was waiting for him. His best food was kept hot in the food warmer, his favourite bottle of wine nesting in the fridge. This was late last year when Covid-19 was virtually unheard of. […]
The fun of dating a reformed toy boy!
They’ve often been seen as greedy men with champagne taste on a beer budget. Yet, toy boys are as well grounded as the average nymphet on the prowl of a sugar-daddy. It is alright for the man to go after girls young enough to be his grand-daughter, but, a sort of an abomination for the […]
Would you still be generous to a friend who betrayed you?
By Bunmi Sofola FAMILIARITY not only breeds contempt, it also breeds a hotbed of opportunities for unfaithfulness. The more close-knit a crop of friends are, the wider the chances of swopping partners, albeit discreetly. Tope’s recent experience, however, took the cake when it comes to how far you can go in forgiving a friend who ‘snatched’ […]
Dear Bunmi, her fiance made a pass at me
Last Christmas, I stayed over with one of my friends and slept on her sofa. Next thing I knew, her boyfriend was leaning over me and kissing me. Of course, I pushed him away – but ever since, he’s been calling me and texting me, asking for us to meet up. And once, when I […]
Dear Bunmi, my man is a control freak
I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years now and I really believe he’s my soul mate. He loves me and treats me like a princess. The only problem is that he’s very jealous. I dare not keep in touch with male friends as it’s just not worth the interrogation. Socialising with men even in […]
