Relationships

When revenge could be therapeutic!

When revenge could be therapeutic!

By Bunmi Sofola HELL might have no furry like a woman scorned, but some have found ways of making the pain more bearable by seeking revenge.  When Rele moved in with her boyfriend of 18 months, she was ecstatic.  But, I warned that living together seldom lead to marriage.  That where it did, the marriage […]
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Ever regretted getting hitched to Mr. Available?

Ever regretted getting hitched to Mr. Available?

IT is a sad fact that we can’t get all we want in a partner in just one package, making a chunk of women to choose a husband for ‘sensible’ reasons – momentarily forgetting the passion of the hot lovers they’d had in the past.  Why is it that men who are studs seldom make […]

Turned off by naked bodies of men in their 60s!

Turned off by naked bodies of men in their 60s!

“A few months back, I entered an enjoyable part-time relationship with a man who lives outside the state. Every few weeks, he comes to Lagos to see me his ‘naughty secret’.”   

Wives who regret ever leaving their marriage

Wives who regret ever leaving their marriage

By Bunmi Sofola YOU get to a crossroads in your life and the road you decide to take could shape your life for ever – for better or worse.  Some 20 years ago, Jennifer, a dentist, had an affair which broke up her marriage to a man she had fallen in love with since they […]

Orgasm: Are women short-changed by men?!

Orgasm: Are women short-changed by men?!

By Bunmi Sofola New research have confirmed that single women have fewer orgasms, while their male counterparts have the most.  According to one of the researchers, having an orgasm is more like running a marathon than a sprint, but for many women, it is uphill terrain.  That when it comes to orgasms, women are still […]

You shouldn’t take your sex life for granted!

You shouldn’t take your sex life for granted!

Most men think they’re great in bed,” observed Jane, a marriage counsellor. “But much as we love our men, a five minute quickie before lights out really doesn’t get the earth moving! It’s not that they lack enthusiasm. They’re just being typical male—always ready for action. The problem is their technique—most of them don’t have any. Foreplay is clumsy and hurried, and as for the s3x, it’s always wham, bam…was that it?