The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
Dear Bunmi, my white lie could backfire
This is a situation where honesty isn’t the best policy – your colleagues may resent being taken for a ride.
Dear Bunmi, should married men have platonic friendship?
“Instead of being sorry and wanting to make it up with me, he just seems angry that I’ve ruined this friendship for him”
Men don’t like it when they get a dose of their medicine!
AREN’T our women a bit over the top in the way they dress these days?” That was Kay as he breezed into my office looking a bit worn around the edges. He’s currently heavily involved with Bomma, an older friend years younger than he is, but had also met Rose, one of the participants at […]
Couldn’t stand his steward having all the fund!!
By Bunmi Sofola Bolaji is a cherished friend I’ve known for years and he loves a good gossip. Most of all, he’s learnt to laugh at himself from time to time no matter at what cost. It’s always a pleasure to listen to him on the few occasions he finds the time to phone. When […]
Women who deal uppercut on hubbies
By Bunmi Sofola A while back, I toyed with the idea of looking into spousal abuse, especially where a woman gives as much as men in the put-down game. What jogged my memory recently is this letter from a male reader detailing abusive treatment suffered in the hands of his girlfriend. “My partner and I have broken […]
