The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
Dear Bunmi, he wants me to have fun before settling down
Dear Bunmi, I ran into an ex-lover who is a happy-go-lucky man. He wants to give me a mind-blowing fling before I settle down. I’m awfully tempted.
Dear Bunmi, I don’t want more kids with her
Dear Bunmi says: But you already have a child, so you cannot just go back to your former life. You have responsibilities and, even if you don’t love your girlfriend anymore, you owe her financial and emotional support.
Dear Bunmi, I regret having too much to drink!
Dear Bunmi, imagine how shocked I was when I woke up the next morning to find my boss in my bed! He’d been flirting with me for months
When revenge could be devastating and nice!
By Bunmi Sofola You have been used and dumped by your partner and you’ve hurt terribly. Now you consider your next line of action. Should you walk away with your head held high or let your emotions get the best of you by plotting revenge? After almost three years of living with her partner, Roy, […]
Dear Bunmi, we parted amicably but I still miss him
Dear Bunmi, When I see him with other friends, my heart breaks. Yet, we weren’t exactly happy when we were together.
