The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
What to do to get cleaner ‘down-under’!
“There’s no such thing as a ‘perfect vagina.’ But if you’re considering a treatment or surgery, weigh up all the risks and only go to a reputable practitioner. Vaginal health is more important than trying to live up to an unrealistic ideal, so let’s start celebrating the fact that all fannies are different!”
Men could be very ruthless when getting even!
As soon as you let them get too familiar, you’d discover what calculating rogues they were. My best friend’s husband once cornered me as I struggled to fix a new bulb into its socket and tried to persuade me into having a relationship with him, saying that since I was still young and attractive, I had no right to deny myself the privileges at his disposal!
How to get over a broken heart
The end of a relationship could be devastating and you may feel you’ll never get your confidence back, but there are simple steps you can take to start putting your life together again. Whether you want to sob, rage, or crawl under the covers, just go with it Denis Knowies, a marriage counsellor, says the […]
Dear Bunmi, did my husband infect me?
Dear Bunmi, after being divorced for a while, I met up with an old flame I’d left 30 years ago. We rekindled our relationship and eventually married
Teachers frustrated by mums who neglect their children
One of the things that upset me most during my time as a teacher was the total lack of curiosity some children showed in the world around them. While some pupils talked excitedly about what they wanted to be when they grew up and the countries they wanted to visit, others displayed no flicker of interest whatsoever.
