She’s using our son as a bargaining chip
Dear Bunmi, About three years ago, against my better judgment, I went out with this girl who was tagged an ‘easy lay’ by the boys. All I wanted was a bite of the cherry, like everybody was having, but she later told me she was pregnant. I denied the pregnancy outright and gave her money to […]
I shouldn’t have rushed into this marriage
Dear Bunmi, I got married about nine months ago – but I now feel I’ve made a terrible mistake. I wasn’t particularly in love with my husband but I was pregnant, already 25 and has a good job.
Gullible women who compromised their marriage
By Bunmi Sofola When you’re used to too much love and attention from your man, his suddenly changing into an almost passive partner could be very hard for you to bear. It happened to me; I should know.” And, that in a nutshell wraps up the reason why a seemingly good marriage headed for the […]
I still want my ex
Dear Bunmi, I’m currently in love with a very nice man who’s smashing to the two children I had in my early relationship. Unfortunately, I’m still in love with the father of my children. Though we broke up, we still remain friends because of the children. When he visits the kids, we often end up falling […]
He’s a freeloader living on my generosity
Dear Bunmi, I met my boyfriend six years ago when we were under-graduates but I’ve worked with my dad for some four years now. I also live in one of his flats. My boyfriend got a job three years ago and is currently living with me. I pay virtually all the bills because he says […]
Does she long after her ex?
Dear Bunmi, I recently ran into an old mate of mine. I was with my current girlfriend and they seemed to know each other pretty well. She later told me they were an item but later broke up. I know, as a fact, that my friend is well-endowed. He used to brag about it when […]
