Dear Bunmi, marriage not as exciting as I thought
I got married early last year, because I was pregnant. I love my husband and daughter, but marriage is not as interesting as I thought it would be. We both have good jobs and my mom helps in looking after the child when I’m away in the office. I also have a fairly well behaved […]
Dear Bunmi, I need to break off from this older lover
I met my boyfriend when I was 18 and we’ve been together for five years. The problem is, we’re always arguing but I know we love each other. Unfortunately, I’ve started sleeping with a married friend of my uncle. He’s much older than I am and I don’t know how it happened or why I’m […]
Dear Bunmi, his boob joke is humiliating
Maybe I’m just being silly but I really hate it when my boyfriend squeezes my breasts in public and says: ‘Honk! Honk!’ I’m quite heavy on top and this just draws attention to them. I find it really humiliating. Other than that, he’s really a nice guy. Shall I just let him carry on and […]
Dear Bunmi, he’s gone back to his wife
I’ve been seeing a man, who is 15 years older than I am, for the past two years. I love him more than I ever thought was possible – but things have become very tough. We were friends for a couple of years before we started a relationship, so from the start I knew he […]
Dear Bunmi, my teenage daughter’s ruining my relationship
After spending years alone, I finally found a man I care for and who cares for me. Our problem is my 18-year-old daughter. She’s spent most of her secondary school years in boarding schools and has to be at home now she’s trying to get into the university. She doesn’t get on at all with […]
Couples who kiss regularly are less likely to get depressed
By Bunmi Sofola WHEN it comes to first kisses, scientists agree with those who believe in love at first sight, happy endings and the power of that first glorious embrace. That’s because, scientists say, a kiss is much more than just a way of saying you fancy someone. It’s an efficient means of working out if your […]
