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Dear Bunmi, could my daughter be randy at 7?

Dear Bunmi, could my daughter be randy at 7?

Recently, I keep catching my daughter masturbating. The problem is she’s only seven years old! So far, I’ve just made a joke of it, telling her she should do so only in her bedroom, as it is a private thing to do. Read Also: Dear Bunmi, she hurt me badly! Have I handled the issue […]
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Dear Bunmi, afraid to tell friends about my failed marriage

Dear Bunmi, afraid to tell friends about my failed marriage

A few years ago, my husband left me for another woman. We were only married for four years and we had no children. I was very upset and found it easier not to tell people, because I knew I’d just start crying. My family lives in another state and I didn’t have any close friends […]

Dear Bunmi, I find it difficult to cope with campus life

Dear Bunmi, I find it difficult to cope with campus life

I started university this year and I really hate it; I haven’t made any real friends. My course is more difficult than I envisaged and my room-mates are all messy, and they stay up partying into the wee hours. But, most of all, I’m really homesick.  I’m very close to my family and miss them […]

Dear Bunmi, I’ve mourned hubby for 6 months; I’m ready to mingle

Dear Bunmi, I’ve mourned hubby for 6 months; I’m ready to mingle

I lost my husband of 20 years to cancer six months ago. Our two children are away in their various universities and I am now unbearably lonely, and feel as though life is passing me by. I’ve tried going out with friends but everyone in the area knows that I’m widowed, so I receive unwanted […]

Dear Bunmi, I no longer want to be stay-at-home wife

Dear Bunmi, I no longer want to be stay-at-home wife

When we got married, I agreed to stay at home with our four children. So, for the past 12 years I have been a full-time mom, which has been great. But now they’re all at school, I’m itching to go back to work, only my husband is kicking against it. It’s true I want for […]

Dear Bunmi, he seems to like large-breasted women

Dear Bunmi, he seems to like large-breasted women

I never said anything yet to my boyfriend, but I think he is obsessed with abnormally large breasts.  I always catch him staring at women’s chest. I have boobs that are on the small size and his attitude is making me feel inadequate. I have a good mind to ask him if he would rather […]