Parents who think their children are the greatest!
By Bunmi Sofola RECENTLY, Frieda, the head of a leading private school, lamented that modern parents are praising their children to the hilt and bringing up their daughters as if they can do no wrong. She argued that being showered with too much praise and too many presents is not a good thing for a child […]
Dear Bunmi, what if he turns me down?
“If you like this man, then tell him. Even if he turns you down, at least you’ll know where you stand!”
There is so much the police can do tackling under-aged sex
By Bunmi Sofola JOKE, a secondary school teacher married to James for close to 19 years tried not to raise her three children the way she’d been raised. “My father was very authoritarian and we were all in awe of him He was such a bully that mum dared not cross him. Prospective girlfriends and […]
How to turn your sex life into what your lover lusts after!
By Bunmi Sofola The average man thinks he’s great in bed, doesn’t he?” Only a few days ago, while chatting with some young lively and adventurous women, one of them complained that, ‘Some men’s between the sheets activities could be quite frustrating. It’s not that they lack enthusiasm, the problem is their technique – they […]
Are you the father of that child?
“It is an age-long thing really. Even in the villages, amongst stark illiterates, it happens all of the time. So why rock the boat? Fate has a way of giving you nasty kicks”
Dear Bunmi, my brother-in-law wants to bed me
Dear Bunmi, he said he was dying to go to bed with me. He said if I didn’t, he would tell my husband we’d been sleeping together anyway.
Our pastor raped me but my mother said ‘forgive him’
But the place he took me to was his house, though I didn’t know at that time. I just know that he put me in a room with a table and a bed. I went straight to lie down because I was too weak to sit up.
What to do to get cleaner ‘down-under’!
“There’s no such thing as a ‘perfect vagina.’ But if you’re considering a treatment or surgery, weigh up all the risks and only go to a reputable practitioner. Vaginal health is more important than trying to live up to an unrealistic ideal, so let’s start celebrating the fact that all fannies are different!”
Men could be very ruthless when getting even!
As soon as you let them get too familiar, you’d discover what calculating rogues they were. My best friend’s husband once cornered me as I struggled to fix a new bulb into its socket and tried to persuade me into having a relationship with him, saying that since I was still young and attractive, I had no right to deny myself the privileges at his disposal!
How to get over a broken heart
The end of a relationship could be devastating and you may feel you’ll never get your confidence back, but there are simple steps you can take to start putting your life together again. Whether you want to sob, rage, or crawl under the covers, just go with it Denis Knowies, a marriage counsellor, says the […]
Dear Bunmi, did my husband infect me?
Dear Bunmi, after being divorced for a while, I met up with an old flame I’d left 30 years ago. We rekindled our relationship and eventually married
