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Diary of a Divorced City Girl

She ‘Married’ Her Best Friend’s Dad!

OPEN marriages work when one partner, usually the wife, turns a blind eye to her husband’s shenanigans. In most cases, the husband is usually careful not to push his luck by always flaunting his trophies. In a few cases, however, wives have been known to forgive the humiliation of a serial adulterer all in the name of love and a sad excuse of hanging on to the marriage.

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What type of man would prefer to make love to a toy!

STEADILY and surely, machines are taking over every day activities. They’re on the production line where they’re faster, more economically efficient and can’t call in sick or hung-over. They’re in hospital operating rooms, where they can perform surgery with a steadier hand than any human being. The fear is they could malfunction!

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How far would you go experimenting with love-making?!

Most young couples these days have sex as if they invented it. Makes you wonder what the stuff you have indulged in over the years should be called: A Beginner’s Guide To Sex?!’ To today’s avid rabbits, sex is what you have when and where you feel like it. If one or two people happen to be watching with disapproval when they do their stuff, tough! They’re just jealous as far as these sex- experts are concerned.

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The Fiance Who Loves His Girl’s Friends To Bits

As Ife helped her friends into a stretch Hummer she’d organised to take them all to the night club where they’d planned a ‘hen’ party for Fade, her best friend, she had no inkling of the nightmare that would later unfold. “We’d started drinking from another friend’s house where we had all assembled. By the time we got to the club close to midnight, we were slushed.

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Relationship: Do you have a way you cope with your man’s philandering

Have you ever regretted decisions that have reshaped your life, whether for better or for worse? At a recent get-together with a couple of friends, we became so relaxed, some of us started discussing our dead marriages. Out of about 12 of us in the group, only three were currently in their ‘husbands’ homes, we’ve all fared pretty well after the divorce, but would any of us have wished she’s acted differently, knowing how mercurial the state of matrimony is now? “The end of my marriage came as a terrible shock to me,” confessed Abi, a pharmacist running a lucrative chemist. “But it shouldn’t have. Even though I was with my husband for over 15 years, the cracks had started shortly after the birth of our third son.

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You must not equate excessive jealousy with love!

At a recent funeral reception this male face tried catching my eye and when he did he would smile. I gave a tentative smile after a while and he sauntered over to my table. “Sunkanmi?”, I asked, the penny finally dropping! I’d known him for ages. I got to know him through a very dear friend and we were often going out in a group. His girlfriend, Dora, worked with an airline and was always travelling. In spite of having a thriving business, Sunkanmi, seemed to have all the time for Dora. He was virtually her shadow – you seldom saw one without the other. His attention was so stifling that Dora was getting fed up with his unfounded jealousy.

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