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Diary of a Divorced City Girl

Why Can’t Older Women Flaunt Their Sex Appeal?

Who exposed all manners of acres of flesh, while older women are expected to all but return to the Victorian age, complete with floor sweeping dresses to disguise any semblance of  curve. The hypocrisy is particularly interesting since there is a constant deafening of chorus of complaints from women as they age, that they become invisible. Yet, when a woman in her 50s dares to hint at her sex appeal, she’s victimised.

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What has shame got to do with a raging libido?

Why are today’s young women so carried away with having fun and experimenting with sex that they scarcely give a thought to getting married?  Those that are lucky to walk down the aisle do it haphazardly. The slightest marital problems they have, their bags are packed, ready to look for greener pastures by eagerly joining their footloose and fancy free friends.

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How do you cope with the nightmare of your 15- year-old’s pregnancy?

“Ajoke is pregnant,” she said bursting into tears. I guessed it was bad enough that her husband got Ajoke pregnant whilst she was in their home parading as his close relation but for her to be pregnant again less than a year after her first son must have sent Vivian round the bend. I said as little as possible. Let her work through her hurt before I gave her whatever advice I could.

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She did what she had to do to give her kids a better life!

WOULD you do anything to make your kids happy – however sordid you believe such things to be? A few years ago, Denike, a teaching assistant at a private primary school resigned and started a sort of petty trading. “We had the front two rooms in the house we moved to after Dele, my husband, was medically discharged from the armed forces and the little money he had ran out”, she explained.

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Why Keep His Name After You’ve Kicked Him Out!

As she left the consulting room, we arranged to meet up and exchanged numbers. I really don’t often look forward to these “do you remember when” moments and seldom hook up with past acquaintances I meet up casually but was pleased when Thelma got in touch, she was having a little get-together at her place and invited me over. I was glad to take up her offer.

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She fell for the oldest lie – His wife doesn’t understand him!

I wanted to know how things were with his wife and he told me they stayed together that long because of their daughter. That it was time for him to move on. A lot of my friends, especially the ones at the club were skeptical about our relationship because of the short time between the end of Kayode’s marriage and the start of our relationship.

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