Why get married when you knew it could flop?!
By Bunmi Sofola It’s the dream of most women to get married to a man whose chemistry works well with hers. She’s dreamt of the magic of her wedding day for years. And now the day is here, would she be stepping into her worst nightmare? “As I walked down the aisle towards the man […]
Dear Bunmi, must I have a boyfriend?
Dear Bunmi, In my 26 years on this earth, I have only had a casual relationship with a man I met at the university, but we were not intimate. I don’t really fancy the idea of having a boyfriend, but my family and friends are at my back to have one and are always matchmaking. […]
Should I dump this absent boyfriend?
Dear Bunmi, there’s no longer communication from my current boyfriend. Some weeks I don’t even hear from him let alone see him. I want to end it, but we’ve been together so long— nine years — that I don’t know where to start and don’t want to upset him. Zainab, by e-mail. Dear Zainab, […]
He wants to record our love-making session
Dear Bunmi, my current boyfriend is a hunk, sophisticated and loving. He is also quite adventurous in his love-making. A few weeks ago, he said he’d like to spice up our love life by bringing his camcorder into the bedroom and taping as we make love! We currently live together, but until he made his […]
Dear Bunmi, should I tell my boss I’m pregnant?
You’re in a mess all right, but the only way through this is to face up to your responsibilities, as your mistress suggested.
Dear Bunmi: My husband won’t use condom
My husband and I got married about 10 years ago, and I’ve just given birth to our fourth child and don’t want any more children.
Dear Bunmi, having sex makes him cry
Dear Bunmi, My boyfriend is the same age as I am (26) and I’m worried about him. Our sex life is great. But once it’s over, he suddenly changes. He becomes really depressed. He’s even cried a couple of times and then leaves a sad man. I’m used to men turning over and going to […]
He doesn’t show much passion!
Dear Bunmi, My boyfriend is great in many ways, and I love him to bits. The problem is he never makes me feel special. I know there are more things in a relationship than mushy cards and presents, but I need some romance in my life. In the two years, we’ve been together, he’s never […]
He doesn’t want to go public with our Affair
Dear Bunmi, I’ve been having an affair with one of my husband’s good friends for the past six months, and I think I’m in love with him. He’s also married and we’re all good family friends. I’m really confused about the relationship, as he carries on as if nothing is between us when we’re with […]
