The toy-boy that was the best thing to happen to this cougar!
By Bunmi Sofola Angela was in her mid 30s when she became broody. “I began to wonder if I’d ever settle down, and become a mum”, she said. “To say I’d live life to the full so far would be an understatement. My 20s and the majority of my 30s had consisted of mild partying, travelling […]
It’s indecent the way some people raid their deceased relatives’ property!
By Bunmi Sofola THE Nigerian culture is of ten rooted in diplomacy, especially when it has to do with polygamous relationships. Eight cases out of ten, it is the first wife that’s left gnashing her teeth after the death of her husband. A few weeks ago, Bola, a good friend, had a get together party for […]
How female sexual aggression is driving young men to Viagra!
FOR a man who just turned 30, Joel should be at his most virile. Tall, handsome with a well-paid job, he admits he’s never had any difficulty attracting the opposite sex. His problem is that when he wants to have sex with a woman, he needs up to two Viagra pills to perform. The blue tablets […]
Dear Bunmi, why did I have this affair, when I love my husband?
“To be faithful ‘till death do us part’ might be a wonderful idea, but there is plenty struggle – and slip – along the way”
Proof that your 60s and beyond can be your most satisfying years sexually!
“The truth is, no generation likes to imagine their parents making love. It is built into us not to consider older people – those over 60 – as sexual beings”
What do you do with a bad child?
I learned a few months later that he did another one right in his room under my roof. The girl was one of his friend’s girlfriends
Dear Bunmi, my friends want me to get a prettier girl
The problem with her is her plain looks. My ex always has a sneer on her face whenever we run into her, and my friends say I could do better
How comfortable are you with your husband’s other wives!
For most women, introducing another woman into the marital home would be unthinkable in spite of the polygamous marriages that are almost the norm in the society. Fatima grew up in a polygamous setting in which she said was a happy one. When she got married 14 years ago, she wasn’t under any illusion she […]
What you expect from your marriage is not what you often get!
By Bunmi Sofola Will the average person experiencing problems in their relationship know the right time to walk away? It goes without saying that divorce now is quick and with little rancour, single parenthood is on the increase and more men opt for the single life despite the fact that eligible women are two a […]
Dear Bunmi, how do I get rid of my boring boyfriend?
Dear Bunmi, twice I’ve called off the relationship because I thought we weren’t right for each other. But he always convinced me to get back
Men can never be off the shelves
‘What do you bring to the table’ is now a yardstick for measuring a potential bride’s eligibility. The traditional wife material standards fast going extinct
