Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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One-night stands? In the end the best s3x is always relationship based

One-night stands? In the end the best s3x is always relationship based

According to Professor of Psychology, Simon Baron Cohen, “Generally, men have, ‘systemising’ brains (they like classifying information and enjoy games and gadgets) whereas women have ‘empathise’ means they’re more likely to be focused on their own feelings (satisfaction and short-term pleasure) and able to detach from the feelings of others. Evolution may also be a […]

Toy-boy who turns into a love-sick monster!

Toy-boy who turns into a love-sick monster!

By Bunmi Sofola What unbridled passion could make a woman seduce a lad?  Isn’t every gangling boy’s fantasy is luring a matured woman to bed for his first and subsequent sexual experiences?  Ironically, there are women out there who find unfettered lads attractive.  Nora was one of them – until she got her fingers burnt.  […]

Court dissolves 8-year-old marriage over husband’s nagging

Court dissolves 8-year-old marriage over husband’s nagging

A Grade ‘A’ Customary Court in Mapo in Ibadan, on Thursday, dissolved an eight-year-old marriage between a housewife, Mujidat Rafiu, on grounds of constants nagging from her husband, Saheed. Delivering judgment, the President of the court, Mrs S.M. Akintayo pronounced the marriage dissolved, citing lack of  peace as the reason. Akintayo granted custody of the […]

#loveweychoke: Am I smothering him with too much affection?

#loveweychoke: Am I smothering him with too much affection?

Dear Bunmi, I’ve always had a high sex drive, but it has become worse since I met my current boyfriend a few months ago. He’s so macho that sex with him is always amazing. As a result, I want to be with him all the time. I’ve tried to act cool when he wants a few […]