Relationships

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away?  Two readers sent in their views recently.  One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife.  “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
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Time on your hand?  Why not give your love life the A – Z boost!

Time on your hand?  Why not give your love life the A – Z boost!

By Bunmi Sofola RECENTLY, I had been inundated with requests from you readers on how to improve your love life.  And what better time to start than now to relieve the stress of the pandemic and the economy?  I was musing on this when I came across an A to Z guide to a sexier you […]

Friends who would try all tricks to poach your man!

Friends who would try all tricks to poach your man!

By Bunmi Sofola It took a lot of effort for me to don my glad rags recently and attend the engagement ceremony of a colleague’s daughter.  We’d been quite friendly in the finance company I worked with for some years, but had lost close contact when she left for greener pastures.  We run into each […]

Do women suffer more than men when relationships end?

Do women suffer more than men when relationships end?

By  Bunmi Sofola A couple of years back, I had a business lunch with a powerful female executive of a textile firm. We’d never met before but by the first course, I’d learned that she had a young son, that juggling a demanding job and home life was nearly killing her and that the father […]

Get rid of that cheat and net a better man!

Get rid of that cheat and net a better man!

By Bunmi Sofola It may be little comfort, but women whose partners cheat on them are likely to be better off in the long run. The largest study of break-ups caused by infidelity found that the lessons learned helped women pick a better partner. The heartbreak of unfaithfulness left them with a ‘higher mating intelligence […]