Relationships

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away?  Two readers sent in their views recently.  One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife.  “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
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One-night stands? In the end the best s3x is always relationship based

One-night stands? In the end the best s3x is always relationship based

According to Professor of Psychology, Simon Baron Cohen, “Generally, men have, ‘systemising’ brains (they like classifying information and enjoy games and gadgets) whereas women have ‘empathise’ means they’re more likely to be focused on their own feelings (satisfaction and short-term pleasure) and able to detach from the feelings of others. Evolution may also be a […]

Toy-boy who turns into a love-sick monster!

Toy-boy who turns into a love-sick monster!

By Bunmi Sofola What unbridled passion could make a woman seduce a lad?  Isn’t every gangling boy’s fantasy is luring a matured woman to bed for his first and subsequent sexual experiences?  Ironically, there are women out there who find unfettered lads attractive.  Nora was one of them – until she got her fingers burnt.  […]

Court dissolves 8-year-old marriage over husband’s nagging

Court dissolves 8-year-old marriage over husband’s nagging

A Grade ‘A’ Customary Court in Mapo in Ibadan, on Thursday, dissolved an eight-year-old marriage between a housewife, Mujidat Rafiu, on grounds of constants nagging from her husband, Saheed. Delivering judgment, the President of the court, Mrs S.M. Akintayo pronounced the marriage dissolved, citing lack of  peace as the reason. Akintayo granted custody of the […]

#loveweychoke: Am I smothering him with too much affection?

#loveweychoke: Am I smothering him with too much affection?

Dear Bunmi, I’ve always had a high sex drive, but it has become worse since I met my current boyfriend a few months ago. He’s so macho that sex with him is always amazing. As a result, I want to be with him all the time. I’ve tried to act cool when he wants a few […]

2023: Political parties’ free nomination forms for women, a Greek gift — Tallen, Fijabi

2023: Political parties’ free nomination forms for women, a Greek gift — Tallen, Fijabi

By Luminous Jannamike ABUJA—The Federal Government has rejected moves by some political parties to offer nomination forms to women, youths and Persons Living With Disabilities who are vying for various elective positions at no cost ahead of next year’s general election.  The Minister of Women Affairs and Social Development, Dame Pauline Tallen, spoke at a briefing […]