I am a single mother, with a partner that is highly unreliable. In spite of having a young daughter, we don’t see him for days on end. He doesn’t phone to see if we are all right, though a lot of his friends see and hear from him regularly. Read Also: #Wahalapromax: Dear Bunmi, after […]

Dear Bunmi, after 16 years, 3 children I discovered my husband’s secret ‘wife’I’ve been married for 16 years, and we have three children. I recently learned from a family member that my husband had a secret family who lived close to her friend’s house – and that the woman had two children for my him. […]

By Bunmi Sofola KOREDE was raised in a polygamous home and confessed he experienced none of the emotional trauma a lot of children who grew up in polygamous settings claimed they went through.  “My dad had three wives who bore him 13 children and my own mum is the middle wife.  All the children wanted […]

By Bunmi Sofola THE rainy season is fast upon us.  A few of us might skip through the season; but most of us will succumb, enduring between two and five bouts of sniffing and sneezing each year – each lasting an average of nine days.  Experts believe we spend around five years of our lives […]

My girlfriend’s colleague let it slip that she was having an affair with a bloke from the office. She didn’t know we were still together. When I confronted her and told her who spilled the beans, she said it was a one-off. Although we’re still together, I still can’t bring myself to make love to […]