Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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Are You Prepared For The Cold Season?

Are You Prepared For The Cold Season?

By Bunmi Sofola THE rainy season is fast upon us.  A few of us might skip through the season; but most of us will succumb, enduring between two and five bouts of sniffing and sneezing each year – each lasting an average of nine days.  Experts believe we spend around five years of our lives […]

Dear Bunmi, can I get over her infidelity?

Dear Bunmi, can I get over her infidelity?

My girlfriend’s colleague let it slip that she was having an affair with a bloke from the office. She didn’t know we were still together. When I confronted her and told her who spilled the beans, she said it was a one-off. Although we’re still together, I still can’t bring myself to make love to […]

Dear Bunmi, he closes his eyes during s3x!

Dear Bunmi, he closes his eyes during s3x!

I’m very close to my boyfriend of nine months and enjoy the intimacy that exists between us. The thing is that whenever we have sex, he closes his eyes and stays silent. He says he enjoys cuddling more than sex, yet he also says he wants more excitement. Read Also: My husband’s friend is destroying […]

Dear Bunmi, my ex allows the kids to run wild

Dear Bunmi, my ex allows the kids to run wild

I’m a divorced mother of three. Their dad and I split up six years ago and he sees them every other weekend. When they’re with me, they have firm rules about bedtimes and behaviours. It’s a different story with their dad. He lets them stay up late at night watching unsuitable TV programmes and films. […]