Relationships

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away?  Two readers sent in their views recently.  One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife.  “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
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Are You Prepared For The Cold Season?

Are You Prepared For The Cold Season?

By Bunmi Sofola THE rainy season is fast upon us.  A few of us might skip through the season; but most of us will succumb, enduring between two and five bouts of sniffing and sneezing each year – each lasting an average of nine days.  Experts believe we spend around five years of our lives […]

Dear Bunmi, can I get over her infidelity?

Dear Bunmi, can I get over her infidelity?

My girlfriend’s colleague let it slip that she was having an affair with a bloke from the office. She didn’t know we were still together. When I confronted her and told her who spilled the beans, she said it was a one-off. Although we’re still together, I still can’t bring myself to make love to […]

Dear Bunmi, he closes his eyes during s3x!

Dear Bunmi, he closes his eyes during s3x!

I’m very close to my boyfriend of nine months and enjoy the intimacy that exists between us. The thing is that whenever we have sex, he closes his eyes and stays silent. He says he enjoys cuddling more than sex, yet he also says he wants more excitement. Read Also: My husband’s friend is destroying […]

Dear Bunmi, my ex allows the kids to run wild

Dear Bunmi, my ex allows the kids to run wild

I’m a divorced mother of three. Their dad and I split up six years ago and he sees them every other weekend. When they’re with me, they have firm rules about bedtimes and behaviours. It’s a different story with their dad. He lets them stay up late at night watching unsuitable TV programmes and films. […]

Dear Bunmi, she said I wasn’t the father

Dear Bunmi, she said I wasn’t the father

Why are women so fickle? Why am I so unlucky with them? After several disappointments, I finally got married to a woman I thought loved me. That was five years ago. We have two boys, but now a man who was my rival, when I was dating her, has boasted that he fathered our first […]