Relationships

Why men ought to be more concerned about their health!

Why men ought to be more concerned about their health!

By Bunmi Sofola Looks as if Nigerian men are paying the price for neglecting their health, with more men dying prematurely every year.  But common male health problems can be detected and treated earlier (if not prevented) with better awareness and regular check-ups.  Listed are some of the health issues highlighted by experts and how […]
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Dear Bunmi, I’ve mourned hubby for 6 months; I’m ready to mingle

Dear Bunmi, I’ve mourned hubby for 6 months; I’m ready to mingle

I lost my husband of 20 years to cancer six months ago. Our two children are away in their various universities and I am now unbearably lonely, and feel as though life is passing me by. I’ve tried going out with friends but everyone in the area knows that I’m widowed, so I receive unwanted […]

Dear Bunmi, I no longer want to be stay-at-home wife

Dear Bunmi, I no longer want to be stay-at-home wife

When we got married, I agreed to stay at home with our four children. So, for the past 12 years I have been a full-time mom, which has been great. But now they’re all at school, I’m itching to go back to work, only my husband is kicking against it. It’s true I want for […]

Dear Bunmi, he seems to like large-breasted women

Dear Bunmi, he seems to like large-breasted women

I never said anything yet to my boyfriend, but I think he is obsessed with abnormally large breasts.  I always catch him staring at women’s chest. I have boobs that are on the small size and his attitude is making me feel inadequate. I have a good mind to ask him if he would rather […]

How could you go on believing lies your lover feeds you!

How could you go on believing lies your lover feeds you!

How many affairs should you over-look before you realise your partner is trying to send you a message by pushing you close to the edge?  About a decade ago, Adaobi was in love.  Ahmed, her man, was separated from a wife who still lived abroad and against her friends and parents’ warnings, she moved in with her superman within a few months of their getting together. 

An old flame and excitement of new romance

An old flame and excitement of new romance

By Bunmi Sofola At times, the joy of an encounter with an old flame could only be matched with the excitement of a new romance. Sandra, a fifty-something-year-old lecturer recently recounted how a chance meeting with an old flame turned a holiday that she thought would be hum-drummed into a never-to-be-forgotten adventure. Her Story I […]