I read a letter on your page from a woman who complained that all men think women are just ‘sex on legs’. Well, she’s wrong. Not all of us think that way. I’m a divorced man of 49 and I live on my own with my teenage son. I think that a woman’s personality matters […]

I’m a single mom and I’m 29. I’ve never been that lucky with men, as my partners have always been violent and cheats. Although I still care for the father of my child, we’ve been apart for close to two years. Now I’ve fallen in love with a friend who works in the same office […]

Last year, my husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer. He’s now much better, but our sex life has deteriorated. I’m only 40 and I’ve tried to be understanding, but don’t know how much longer I can go without making love. Read Also: Dear Bunmi, is he controlling me through sex? I want things back to the […]

I am not a rich woman. As a matter of fact, as a widow in her 60s, I find it difficult to make ends meet. I vowed, when my husband died 15 years ago, that my children wouldn’t lack anything and I am glad to say three of the four children are now independent. My […]

When my friend comes to spend time with me, I pay for everything. Recently, I went to her place and she treated me shabbily. She barely cooked, and begrudged me a second piece of meat. One evening, she refused to let me have a bath because she claimed she bought water all the time. Read […]