Relationships

What does a married woman expect of a fling?

What does a married woman expect of a fling?

By Bunmi Sofola MURI certainly put a new twist on the sugar daddy saga. Well in his fifties, he was an independent participant in the advanced IT we once ran. Tall and debonair, he looked too sure of himself for my liking. Always wafting the most expensive aftershave, his clothes were just so; not too […]
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Dear Bunmi, he seems to like large-breasted women

Dear Bunmi, he seems to like large-breasted women

I never said anything yet to my boyfriend, but I think he is obsessed with abnormally large breasts.  I always catch him staring at women’s chest. I have boobs that are on the small size and his attitude is making me feel inadequate. I have a good mind to ask him if he would rather […]

How could you go on believing lies your lover feeds you!

How could you go on believing lies your lover feeds you!

How many affairs should you over-look before you realise your partner is trying to send you a message by pushing you close to the edge?  About a decade ago, Adaobi was in love.  Ahmed, her man, was separated from a wife who still lived abroad and against her friends and parents’ warnings, she moved in with her superman within a few months of their getting together. 

An old flame and excitement of new romance

An old flame and excitement of new romance

By Bunmi Sofola At times, the joy of an encounter with an old flame could only be matched with the excitement of a new romance. Sandra, a fifty-something-year-old lecturer recently recounted how a chance meeting with an old flame turned a holiday that she thought would be hum-drummed into a never-to-be-forgotten adventure. Her Story I […]

Dear Bunmi, am I smothering him with too much s3x?

Dear Bunmi, am I smothering him with too much s3x?

I’ve always had a high sex drive, but it has become worse since I met my current boyfriend a few months ago. He’s so macho that sex with him is always amazing. As a result, I want to be with him all the time.  I’ve tried to act cool when he wants a few nights off […]

Making the most of that ‘distraction’ from your marriage!

Making the most of that ‘distraction’ from your marriage!

By Candida BARELY a year after she changed jobs, Abi was excited when she was picked as one of the four executives for a one-week course at a posh hotel.  “The course was an intensive one,” explained Abi, 45, “privately organised and very exhaustive.  Sitting in a classroom again was a bizarre feeling – I hadn’t […]