Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!
By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away? Two readers sent in their views recently. One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife. “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
You can make your love-life sizzle again!
By Bunmi Sofola IF your love-life is flagging, you’re always advised to change your partner! A it drastic, but it could be extremely inconvenient socially but there is one thing you definitely ought to try first – that is changing the background. Many couples who have made love year after year in the same bed […]
Is the havoc caused by the myth of ‘soul-mates’ affecting your marriage?
By Bunmi Sofola THE word ‘soulmates’ seldom cropped into conversation some 15 years ago. If it did, it was in romantic novels or deeply emotional romantic films. Today the term is freely used by a lot of ‘modern’ loves. “Single women worry there is something wrong with them because they can’t find their soulmate,” observes a […]
Would you still be generous to a friend who betrayed you?
By Bunmi Sofola FAMILIARITY not only breeds contempt, it also breeds a hotbed of opportunities for unfaithfulness. The more close-knit a crop of friends are, the wider the chances of swopping partners, albeit discreetly. Tope’s recent experience, however, took the cake when it comes to how far you can go in forgiving a friend who ‘snatched’ […]
The nanny was a better option than the wife!
By Bunmi Sofola YOU must have, lost count of stories you’ve been regaled with about the shenanigans of some husbands and the family’s nanny. Only, it is a heartbreaking reality for some wives. What does it feel like to be betrayed by the man you married with a woman living under your own roof? And […]
Dear Bunmi, my mistress flaunts her lovers
Dear Bunmi, we’d been having a sizzling relationship since then, only for her to bring in one or two lovers to her flat.
