By Bunmi Sofola Until recently, Jibola, a 39-year-old accountant was the life and soul of most parties he attended.  He would think nothing of polishing off a bottle or two of red wine, then follow it up with whatever booze was available.  Then, one day, horrified at seeing a colleague’s daughter’s wedding photographs and how ridiculous […]

“Her appearance now puts me off, and I can only get aroused by picturing younger girls I’d slept with”

Dear Bunmi, I don’t love my wife anymore, but if I sent her packing, I, along with our three children, would be the ones to suffer

By Bunmi Sofola It was a bit uncanny. I was at this seminar when a professionally dressed female executive flitted across the room and she reminded me of a younger version of Angela. We were classmates in secondary school. Very intelligent and a bookworm, she did so well for herself that after getting a good […]

By Bunmi Sofola HAVE you readers noticed the new and growing breed of ‘forever singles’?  It consists of a band of empowered, independent women who don’t want to be defined by a relationship.  Not for them nights slumped on the sofa trying to pacify a screaming kid whilst their man snores in front of Super […]