Relationships

The modern-day wife who has little or no respect for her husband!

The modern-day wife who has little or no respect for her husband!

By Bunmi Sofola BARBARA Taylor Bradford, renowned author of blockbusters like Woman of Substance and its sequel once said she was appalled by couples who row in public.  She wrote: “When I open my mouth to say something, I edit my answer before it leaves my lips.”  According to her, her husband, Bob, is a […]
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Don’t let affairs destroy your relationship

Don’t let affairs destroy your relationship

JUST at what stage do you start getting cynical about love?  A few weeks ago, Jade, an old friend became irritated because her daughter’s boyfriend of 18 months didn’t want to face the reality of the death of the romance.  “He keeps on hanging around the house like a love-sick puppy”, she complained. 

I don’t want a hush-hush romance

I don’t want a hush-hush romance

Dear Bunmi, I will be 50 this year. Seven months ago, I fell for a man I’ve known socially for sometime. He says he’s committed to me but doesn’t want to get married again after his first marriage failed. Yet, I can’t live with him without getting married, as my religion doesn’t allow it. We […]

How do I tell him I no longer love him?

How do I tell him I no longer love him?

Dear Bunmi, My 25th birthday is around the corner and I’m thinking of having a fairly big one. My current boyfriend is getting worked up about it and hinted he had something really special planned for the day. That gets me panicking because I’ve been unhappy with the relationship and plan to dump him. As […]

He swore his undying love

He swore his undying love

Dear Bunmi, I am 16 and there is this  18-year-old boy who has been sending me letters and text messages informing me how much he loves me. He keeps on trying to convince me that I’m the only one who occupies his heart. When I told him that I don’t want him to be my […]

Excessive hair growth embarrasses me!

Excessive hair growth embarrasses me!

Dear Bunmi, For quite a while now  I’ve got what looks like a dark moustache on my upper lip and, recently, I’ve started to sprout hairs on the chin and my chest. Not exactly ‘magnet’ when you want to pull a man, you’ll agree. I’ve tried shaving, but it seems to encourage the growth. Are […]