The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
I can’t stay faithful to just one man
Dear Bunmi, I can’t remember when I’ve had only one boyfriend – I’ve always two-timed, at times having three relationships at one go. The men do it all the time, and if my lovers don’t know about each other, where is the harm? I’ve now met a very responsible man and we are talking marriage. I […]
Embarrassed by my ill-shaped boobs
Dear Bunmi, I have a smashing figure – tight stomach, nice bum (especially in thongs!), big boobs but one breasts is slightly bigger than the other. I’m sure everyone can notice this. As a result, I don’t often leave the light on when I make love in case my partner laughs. Can this problem be fixed? […]
Inside life: I’m in love with a married mom
Dear Bunmi,I’m in love with a married mother of two, though I’ve never really gotten married. I’ve had a live-in relationship that produced a son I admire. Don’t tell me to stop seeing this woman! I love her too much. We meet regularly and, no, we don’t rip each other’s clothes off. Very often we just sit, hold […]
I don’t want a hush-hush romance
. Dear Bunmi, I will be 50 this year. Seven months ago, I fell for a man I’ve known socially for sometime. He says he’s committed to me but doesn’t want to get married again, after his first marriage failed. Yet, I can’t live with him without getting married, as my religion doesn’t allow it. […]
Could she be having an affair?
I love my wife dearly and we’ve been married for over 10 years. She’s given me three lovely children and we live in our own house.
