Dear Bunmi,I’m in love with a married mother of two, though I’ve never really gotten married. I’ve had a live-in relationship that produced a son I admire. Don’t tell me to stop seeing this woman! I love her too much. We meet regularly and, no, we don’t rip each other’s clothes off. Very often we just sit, hold […]

. Dear Bunmi, I will be 50 this year. Seven months ago, I fell for a man I’ve known socially for sometime. He says he’s committed to me but doesn’t want to get married again, after his first marriage failed. Yet, I can’t live with him without getting married, as my religion doesn’t allow it. […]

I love my wife dearly and we’ve been married for over 10 years. She’s given me three lovely children and we live in our own house.

I have always admired the matured way you tackle problems on your page. Now in your experience, if a man says he loves you, but that he’ll never leave his kids, no matter how unhappy his wife makes him, does he ever change his mind? I just turned 20 and I love my man so passionately I am prepared to wait.

I LOST my wife a few years ago in an unfortunate motor accident, and had made up my mind to re-marry. We were married for over 20 years and she was a good mother to our three boys.