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What’s a man’s pride got to do with it when he smells the money?!

What’s a man’s pride got to do with it when he smells the money?!

By Bunmi Sofola SYLVIA admitted that her parent’s marriage and the stoic way her mummy yielded her position as the first wife to a much younger and ambitious woman prepared her for the way she handled her relationship with men.  Her story:  ‘When a man suddenly discovered he’s scaled the ladder of success faster than he’d […]
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She became enraged when her friend dated the man she dumped!

She became enraged when her friend dated the man she dumped!

There’s no faster killer of friendship than one friend making a banquet of another friend’s left-over! Angela and Temi’s friendship went way back to their secondary school days. “Even after we went to different universities, our friendship continued,” Temi said. “As luck would have it, thanks to Angela’s dad’s influence, we got posted to the same state for our youth service. Whilst I ended up teaching in a secondary school, Angela worked in a bank.

Do Whistle Blowers’ Victims Still Have Any’ Friends Left?!

Do Whistle Blowers’ Victims Still Have Any’ Friends Left?!

No matter what your reaction is to the spate of the public display of soiled linen of some fallen public officials and socialites by the powers-that-be; the fact remains that the victims’ feelings are seldom given any serious thoughts by the public.

Husband Who Became Manic Over Wife’s Revenge Affair!

Husband Who Became Manic Over Wife’s Revenge Affair!

WHENEVER Benny, a childhood friend, visits, she always leaves me feeling uneasy. According to her, I am too trusting leave valuables strewn all over the place, my doors are so poorly secured that even a kid could pick the locks; and I always pay the artisans without haggling to the point of annoyance. In short, I was a soft touch.

When Your Lover Leaves You With STD – Sexually Transmitted Debt

When Your Lover Leaves You With STD – Sexually Transmitted Debt

WHEN Phillip split up with his long-term lover last year, he expected the process to be emotionally painful. What he didn’t expect was to be virtually taken to the cleaners by her greed. “I was a happy divorcee when I met Dorothy eight years ago. Pretty and highly intelligent, she ran a fairly successful employment agency. But as the economy continues to take a lot of battering, her clients dwindled and I had to bail her out most of the time. I put her on a fairly generous allowance and continued to pay for the rent on her office premises”, explained Phillip.

Warning: Wearing knickers could be hazardous to your health!

Warning: Wearing knickers could be hazardous to your health!

Do you think your undies could be causing you serious health problems? And is there a real case for permanently consigning them to the back of your drawers? Surprising as it may seem, growing numbers of women say they are quietly giving up knickers for health reasons. It seems that synthetic materials, modern dyes and industrial- strength control fabrics now used in undies could be causing everything from infections to stomach aches and even prolapses – where an organ in a woman’s pelvis slips out of place.

Could Women Handle This Much Power?

Could Women Handle This Much Power?

Most men must not have noticed, but they’re on the way out,” observed Benny, a highly successful engineer and a single mother of three.

For decades mum hid the fact she was a mistress!

For decades mum hid the fact she was a mistress!

As the preacher went on about my dad being a loving husband to Fadeke and all his children, I looked around because I felt a movement. It was my mother at the end of the pews, acting as if she didn’t want to be seen.

When a man’s ‘catch’ at a party turns a nightmare!

When a man’s ‘catch’ at a party turns a nightmare!

LAGOS is definitely an exciting place,” said this charming lady I recently sat next to at a birthday bash. “My husband has just been transferred to Lagos from the Abeokuta branch of his office and I dreaded the things that could happen to my social life in Lagos.

Why St. Valentine’s Day Is Such A Huge Joke! – Reader

Why St. Valentine’s Day Is Such A Huge Joke! – Reader

“My hatred of Valentine’s Day started as a teenager. With my ugly specs, braided hair and wonky teeth, I was never going to be the stuff of anyone’s dreams. In my mind I was a winner, an individual, someone whose potential hadn’t yet been spotted by any local member of the opposite sex.

Why middle-class wives beat up their husbands!

Why middle-class wives beat up their husbands!

By Bunmi Sofola Disturbingly, it seems domestic violence against men has become a very middle-class problem. As women work. earn – and in many cases drink – as much as their menfolk, the dominant force in many relationships is no longer male and some women are lashing out. According to newspaper reports, “For nine years, […]

When sleeping in separate rooms could save your marriage

When sleeping in separate rooms could save your marriage

This morning, I woke up alone again, as I do every morning”, said Caroline, tongue in check. She was trying to make me see the importance of separate bedrooms to some fledgling marriages. She continued: “I nipped down to the kitchen to make a plate of hot buttered toast and brought it back to bed with me with a cup of tea. I switched on the TV, laid back and happily scattered crumbs all over the sheets without feeling guilty.

Married mothers should make love every night!

Married mothers should make love every night!

Considering the chaos of family life, you might imagine this to be a special occasion but we have sex practically every night. Intimacy is a huge part of our 14-year relationship,” the glue that bonds our marriage together. Having three children is no excuse for letting your love life dwindle”.

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