The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
Can you ever forgive a husband who had an affair with your best friend?
If someone was caught having an affair, would they make a full confession? Would they know if they wanted to stay in that relationship or leave
When the wife’s scared of intimacy
It was one of the few weddings I just had to attend. Feeling a bit bored, I turned off, mentally calculating other things that needed my attention when the Reverend Father climbed onto the pulpit to give his wedding sermon
When the cash-cow dies
By Bunmi Sofola About a fortnight ago, I ran into an old friend on the Island. I was really glad to see him. He’d simply disappeared from the social scene with his family. After the usual pleasantries, he told me he had to leave the country when he did as his life was virtually falling […]
As he held his new-born son, he prayed he’d be a better father than his drunken dad!
By Bunmi sofola Some five months ago, Earnest, a chartered accountant who’d just ventured into going it alone in his private firm, became a father for the first time. He’s still in awe of what he termed “a miracle and God’s priceless gift to us”. According to him, “My son’s coming has turned me upside […]
How to handle the ‘Teenage Demon’ when it visits your children
By Bunmi Sofola When Sussie’s son came on his first long vacation from the university a couple of years ago, he came with a handful of friends. In days, they’d eaten Sussie out of home and her stock of lager and liquor had virtually disappeared. But the lad was growing to adulthood, Sussie had reasoned, […]
