By Bunmi Sofola The golden advice is when you spot any sign of violence in a potential partner, you should run…  It’s not as cut and dried as that, “confessed Gloria, a 38-year-old tax consultant who recently escaped from the controlling clutches of a partner she referred to as a ‘nasty piece of work’. I […]

By Bunmi Sofola I was looking at some old family photographs the other day when I realised to my horror that Jude, my husband still wears the same revolting danshiki with matching trousers that he wore 12 years ago!  Moaned Jesicca, a 49 year old medical doctor married to Jude, 53 and the owner of […]

By Bunmi Sofola A few months ago I spent a few days with a very dear friend who lives in a block of luxury flat, and noticed the occupant of the next flat to hers was new. In the past, the flat had been occupied by some noisy neighbours. It was a relief to have […]

By Bunmi Sofola IMAGINE when your pregnancy is scanned for the first time so you could see your precious baby growing in the womb, suddenly its whole body gives a shudder and the foetus appears to jump. Such a movement is known as the startle reflex; and the scan described above are from photographs from […]

How do you spot a love rat?  The current man in your life has virtually swept you off your feet.  He texts you all day, takes you to your favourite eatery from time to time, boys you little gifts and calls you at night because he can’t stop thinking of you!  The first time Sandra’s […]