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Husbands who believe wives bring out the violence in them!

Husbands who believe wives bring out the violence in them!

By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away?  Two readers sent in their views recently.  One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife.  “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a violent […]
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Wake up call to Wives: Naira power is dwindling fast, you need to adjust!

Wake up call to Wives: Naira power is dwindling fast, you need to adjust!

By Bunmi Sofola The joke on inflation is no longer on the working class and the poor to tighten their financial belts to the point of being squeezed to death.  According to Laz, a reputable chartered accountant: “A lot of rich men’s net worth have decreased considerably in the last few years, and most of them […]

How some men enjoy humiliating successful women!

How some men enjoy humiliating successful women!

By Bunmi Sofola Why do some successful women fall for cads?  This was a poser I put to Jola, a very good friend and a thorough professional who continues to reap the benefits of her labour.  Unfortunately, the same couldn’t be said for her husband.  They are both chartered accountants but Jola was lucky because she […]

Couldn’t stand his steward having all the fun!!

Couldn’t stand his steward having all the fun!!

By Bunmi Sofola Bolaji is a cherished friend I’ve known for years and he loves a good gossip.  Most of all, he’s learnt to laugh at himself from time to time no matter at what cost.  It’s always a pleasure to listen to him on the few occasions he finds the time to phone.  When he […]

I regret snatching my friend’s husband — Reader

I regret snatching my friend’s husband — Reader

By Bunmi Sofola A Reader wrote: I have followed your columns way back from your Punch days when I was in the university. Most of the times, your articles are so down-to-earth they speak to me – as if you are writing about me. In one of the editions of Sunday Vanguard a few months […]

How not to settle for dodgy presents this Christmas

How not to settle for dodgy presents this Christmas

By Bunmi Sofola There is currently a subliminal build-up to Christmas.  Wherever you turn, discreet Christmas carols blaring from the stereos of the various record shops assault your ears.  Could it be Christmas already?  Well, this is November and Christmas is only a few weeks away.  The cable network is awash with weepy Christmas films […]