Put your wife down at your peril!
By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have. We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left. A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony. Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
You can make your love-life sizzle again!
By Bunmi Sofola IF your love-life is flagging, you’re always advised to change your partner! A it drastic, but it could be extremely inconvenient socially but there is one thing you definitely ought to try first – that is changing the background. Many couples who have made love year after year in the same bed […]
Is the havoc caused by the myth of ‘soul-mates’ affecting your marriage?
By Bunmi Sofola THE word ‘soulmates’ seldom cropped into conversation some 15 years ago. If it did, it was in romantic novels or deeply emotional romantic films. Today the term is freely used by a lot of ‘modern’ loves. “Single women worry there is something wrong with them because they can’t find their soulmate,” observes a […]
Would you still be generous to a friend who betrayed you?
By Bunmi Sofola FAMILIARITY not only breeds contempt, it also breeds a hotbed of opportunities for unfaithfulness. The more close-knit a crop of friends are, the wider the chances of swopping partners, albeit discreetly. Tope’s recent experience, however, took the cake when it comes to how far you can go in forgiving a friend who ‘snatched’ […]
The nanny was a better option than the wife!
By Bunmi Sofola YOU must have, lost count of stories you’ve been regaled with about the shenanigans of some husbands and the family’s nanny. Only, it is a heartbreaking reality for some wives. What does it feel like to be betrayed by the man you married with a woman living under your own roof? And […]
Facing a so-called best friend’s betrayal could be so heart-wrenching
By Bunmi Sofola When you need a shoulder to cry on, the first person that springs to mind is your best friend, right? Well, not necessarily. Some best friends could be as deadly as your worst enemy. That’s what Sefi found out when she was having problems with her husband. He was almost 18 years older […]
